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It may not be the best time of year to make a trip north of the border and visit my friends in Montreal, but there's an underlying, or some may say "subversive" reason why I want to make the trek. I've heard pretty good things about online dating in Canada and from what my buddies tell me, Montreal is the place to go to find some hotties. Of course, all of the normal preparations need to be made, but checking out some local dating sites is an absolute must.
The other day I was checking my inbox on one of my favorite dating sites for casual sex, and was pleasantly surprised to find a Japanese girl sent me a message telling me to join her and her friends at a club on Saturday. I've never been much of a clubber, but I suppose she wanted to make sure I was a decent guy and it's always safer to go to the clubs in numbers, especially for chicks. The one thing on my mind though, was whether I was going to witness some Asian girls gone wild. Some booze and heavy beats can do that to anyone, so it wasn't exactly wishful thinking.
It is January , 2010. Wow a New Year and decade. What will happen to many of you this year, and in the next 10.
Will you look back and say,”only if:, or : “what could I have done differently”
Or will you look back and be happy where you are in your life - in a relationship, or planning your wedding, or children?
Take the steps to make that happen. Don’t say you want it but then don’t do anything about it. Or find yourself with potential matches and you don’t even really make the effort to move things forward. Take the next few week, or days, to look at yourself and really ask are you doing what you can to meet someone. But even more so, once you are - are you putting everything you can to make it work? A relationship is hard work - if you ask people it is probably more challenging and stressful then that new job, moving, school, what ever you are involved in. But it is worth it. So go out there the end result can find you a spouse.
It should come as no surprise to anyone who follows my contributions here that I love casual dating, but every now and then I meet someone and there are sparks that are more than just sexual. Though I'm leaning toward considering something very serious with this particular woman, the other day I came across a sex dating site called Ashley Madison. They claim monogamy, for men in particular, shouldn't necessarily be expected. If you are having trouble fixing a broken relationship, this site might just be the key, because you might find an affair can change your marriage for the better.
After hooking up with an ebony chick, it's safe to say I'm on a real multi-ethnic casual dating kick. I've been with Asian women, a black babe and many white girls, but for fairly obvious reasons, never had the pleasure of hooking up with any sexy Arab babes. I have no delusions about going out with a deeply religious girl or anyone staunchly conservative. Let's just say I'm not exactly the kind of guy to attract that type. In the normal course of a couple of conversations, I've been called a heretic at least a few times. There are loads of Arab chicks on sex dating sites, however, and I was happy to confirm my belief that not all Arab women are religious - not in the least!
Unless you're willing to move halfway across the country, the chances of scoring wealthy single men looks pretty slim. Even if you are willing to relocate, rich dating sites can be deceiving. All of this was relayed to me by a friend who I suggested check out these sites, as she's looking for someone just as successful as she is. She's a lawyer in New York and as almost any single New Yorker will tell you, the selection of decent guys who make a substantial income is paltry at best.
The Olympics are on their way and rather than thinking about all the displays of incredible physical strength, accuracy and endurance, I'm just pumped to watch some of my favorite fit dream girls in action. Naturally, the Winter Olympics aren't the best time to check them out, or for that matter, to check out any chicks at all! It's one of the major downsides to living in a cold climate. Thus do we have fitness dating sites where you can avoid the freezing weather, slush and ice and just hook up with chicks online.
This will be my last post for 2009 so here goes…
For 2010 - what can you change to improve the way you may be looking for a potential partner?
Are you being too “picky”? Are you not getting out there enough? Are you spending to much time at the office, that you just don’t know where to go to meet someone?
Well if you answered YES to anyone of there, how about trying one of the many On-line Dating Sites. I am partial ( well considering that is where I spend most of my days, trying to make matches for many of you - or hope to be) for Sawyouatsinai - if you are a religious, or a little more Observant, and Jretromatch for the non-religious. Sign up - the cost is minimal when you consider you are looking for your spouse.
Go in with a great attitute, if you don’t meet your furture spouse, you may meet some wonderful people - have some fun going out on dates, or speaking with people, but the main thing - you are doing what you can.
With just under a 1000 members being succesfully matched, and today are either happily married, some even with children, and other’s planning there day. To the 100’s that are currently dating - you too can be included in these numbers.
Just don’t sit around and wait, as waiting will not help you - being proactive will…
Lets have a great 2010 - and hope you will be one of the many that will be succesfully matched and that your name will be there with all the other’s
Christmas is right around the corner and while for some that means family time, egg nog and rum and of course, presents, the thing I'm looking forward to most is the sexy girl I used to date who is visiting from France. Whenever she's in town, I know it's going to be a wild ride. No matter that she has a boyfriend back in Paris. Normally, when I have some time off of work I'll troll sex dating sites, but I highly doubt I'll be spending that much time staring at a screen this Christmas.
You are trying to figure out what to do on the date>
Make it somewhere that the two of you can feel comfortable, you may want to discuss it together to see if there is a place that you both would enjoy. Don’t set up an extravagant first date this is a time to figure out if there is enough similar interests that you would want to go out again.
One of my best first dates, a bike ride on the Boardwalk - then a picnic dinner by the water ( I lived in Toronto so this was at the harbour)/ It showed me a lot about the person, as he packed up a great meal - nothing fancy - but had everything planned out. The cost minimal and it has left an impact on me for over 18 years. ( No we did not get married, but the date was wonderful)
Some like going to a movie and dinner - you can then speak about the movie and find out some other things as well. Don’t plan a long date, if things don’t work out it may be difficult to spend time together. “Coffee” dates are always good if it is uncomfortable you can always end it, and if not spend many hours talking.
My first date with my husband - he showed up in sweat pants saying he had to leave to go play hockey, 1/2 after the time he was “supposed” to be gone I asked him, he did have a game, but I think to this day it was a great excuse to show up in sweats. he never made the game, and we talked most of the night. That night I had a feeling he would be the guy I married - he said it took the 2nd date for him to realize it.
So what ever your plans, just have fun, and try to enjoy the experience.